Externalizing the problem – Video

By Tom Check | Blog | Comments are Closed | 18 November, 2019 | 0

Videos to help you optimize your life

How we externalize our problems.

Are you giving away your power to create change by only seeing the external problems? You aren’t alone if you are. Plenty of us do this, but there is a more empowering way – and that is to move the locus of control over our obstacles to our internal space and reframe things to identify ‘What I CAN do about this’.

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